desperate times call for desperate measures. I researched the fastest way to get to the town where he lives with San Franciso as my starting point. Actually, I intentionally want to live in Sonoma, Ca. but of course I will start in the "big city" before moving to the idyllic vineyard town.... I must be going bonkers.... doing the "finding HIM" thing, no, "must find HIM" thing.... yeah.... I must find HIM..... to bring closure to this madness....